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Toddlers: 12 to 35 months

Toddlers are learning to communicate, handle feelings and do more for themselves. Find explanations and examples for the moments that can be hard: leaving a game, sitting down to eat, going to bed or getting ready to use the toilet.

A caregiver and young child sharing a picture book.

Big feelings and clear limits

Comfort and a limit can happen together. Read short conversations and examples of what to do before, during and after a difficult moment. Specific behavior guides explain hitting and biting in more detail.

Help with big feelings · Set clear limits · Respond to hitting or biting

Meals, sleep and toilet learning

These guides explain the everyday arrangements around a task, the child's participation and when another kind of help may be needed. They do not require every family to follow one schedule.

Read about picky eating · Work through bedtime · Explore toilet learning

Make routines easier to follow

A few visible steps can make getting ready more understandable. Use examples for mornings, meals and bedtime, then choose words or pictures that fit your child's communication.

Build an everyday routine · Print routine cards

Talk, read and play

Everyday conversation offers chances to respond to your child's interests. Find examples for shared books, more than one language and simple play with things already at home.

Talk and read together · Support speech and more than one language · Choose play activities

Leaving, returning and sharing care

Explain who will care for your child and when you will return in words they can understand. Share the plan with other caregivers so the goodbye and the handoff are clear.

Read about separation and goodbyes · Work with your child's caregivers

When you have a concern

If you notice a change or worry about development, describe it to your child's health care team. Official development resources can help you record observations; they do not replace a professional assessment.

Prepare for a health visit · Find official support resources