Notice together
Point out something the child is looking at: “That dog is running.” Pause. A look, gesture, sound or word can be a response. Follow what they notice next instead of quizzing them on all the pictures.
Add a little
If the child says “truck,” you might add “a big truck” or describe what it is doing. Leave room for them to continue. The aim is a shared conversation, not a correction after every word.
Return to a familiar page
Read a favorite page again. Invite participation in a phrase or action the child recognizes, without making it a requirement. Familiarity can leave more room for noticing a new detail.
Imagine another part
With a preschooler, wonder what a character might do next. “Where do you think they will go?” You can offer your own idea and listen to a different one. A picture choice or drawing can take the place of a spoken answer.
Use the languages you share
Talk in the language or languages that help you connect. You can discuss a picture even if the book's printed language differs. Find professional communication information if you have a concern rather than assuming multilingual experience is the cause.
Three illustrative beginnings
- Baby: show one picture, name it and respond to the baby's attention.
- Toddler: follow a pointed-to item and add a short description.
- Preschooler: choose a familiar character and invent another part of the story together.
Our own invitation
A book, picture or daily activity:
A short opening:
Ways the child can respond:
Borrow a book, use an existing drawing or talk about something outside. Buying a new resource is not necessary to begin.
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