# Everyday Routine Cards

Choose a few steps your child can recognize, print them and put them in order. Use pictures, words, gestures or an object cue that fits your child's communication. The cards are a way to explain the day, not a schedule every family must follow.

## Morning: three starting cards



### Get dressed

Place the clothes where the child can reach or see them. Offer one manageable part: choose a shirt, put an arm in a sleeve or bring the socks.

### Gather what we need

Check the bag together. Name one item the child can carry or point to. Keep important adult responsibilities with the adult.

### Go to the door

Use a short cue: “Clothes, bag, then the door.” Show the next step instead of repeating the whole morning plan.

## Before a meal



### Finish and put aside

Give a brief warning about the change. Show where a toy or unfinished activity can wait.

### Wash and come to the table

Follow the household's handwashing and seating arrangements. If there is a waiting period, explain it rather than expecting the child to guess.

### Join in

Offer a suitable small task such as choosing between two cups or bringing a napkin. Adapt participation to the child and setting.

## Before bed



### Prepare

Choose the care tasks that belong in your evening, such as changing clothes and following the family's toothbrushing routine.

### A quieter activity

Read a short book or have a brief conversation. A repeated activity can give the child a recognizable point in the sequence.

### Say goodnight

Use the agreed goodbye and sleep arrangements. If another caregiver takes over, share the short sequence rather than expecting them to copy every detail.

## Make your own card

**The step:**

**The words, picture or cue:**

**How the child can take part:**

## Illustrative adaptation

In a household with changing shifts, the bedtime caregiver may vary. The adults agree on three recognizable steps—prepare, book, goodnight—and keep a small picture card in the same place. They change the timing when needed without describing the change as the child's failure.

[Read about routines](/resources/everyday-routines-for-toddlers/) · [Read about bedtime](/resources/toddler-and-preschool-bedtime/) · [Share the care arrangement](/resources/tools/caregiver-handoff/)

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